Last Words You'd Say to an Ex #30DayBlogChallenge
Things I would say to an ex?
Hmm this is an interesting topic for me.
Why? Well because I've only had 2 exes in my life so far and I've talked to
them both after the breakup. My first ex I speak with more frequently, and I am
straight forward with him. There's no holding back or biting my tongue when I
am addressing him, because there's no reason to. Our current relationship is
weird because we're far from friends, definitely do not see each other, and we
sporadically stop talking for months. However we enjoy conversations with each
other, he's like a fungus that I cut but grows back every season. So I guess I
would tell him "what are you doing here, leave me alone and go away."
Although I've said these exact words to him several times.
Now my second ex is a little more
complicated, because our breakup was strange and a little more personal than
the first, so it's not as easy for us to just converse. He calls me randomly
like every 3 or 4 months, each time for some crazy reason involving a crazy
background story that "explains" his purpose for contacting me.
Personally I think this is his way of trying to keep up with what is going on
in my life. Considering our relationship ended with distrust, I dislike this
sneaky tactic because it makes me feel like he's up to something no good. I
would much rather him just say "Hey Li Li you crossed my mind and I just
wanted to check up on you," but knowing him that'll never happen, he'll
just continue to plot. I actually have a lot I would say to him, but every time
he randomly calls I forget. So the first thing I would say is "where are
my Yugioh cards, did I leave them at your mom house?" Second, "is my
clothes and DVDs still at your mom house, because I'm missing my favorite movie
The Notebook." Lastly I would tell him that I wish him the best with all
of his endeavors. I probably have said that already but based on the last time
we spoke, I don't know what he believes about me. Honestly I don't care, but I
would give him that reassurance that I'm the same person.
No relationship is perfect and the
sooner we realize this the faster we can learn what our limits are. You're
going to compromise, but it's up to you to decide what it is that you're
willing to compromise on. Perfect doesn't have assigned traits or characteristics;
you develop what your perfect is. In both relationships I learned valuable
lessons about people, the world, and myself that I wouldn't take away.
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