Lust or Love Not a Netflix

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Love | Lust


I've noticed in the recent months that dating has become less serious and more casual oppose to the past. We are forgetting one of the most essential pieces of life, LOVE. Nowadays we are confusing Lust with Love, and I don't think there's a direct person that we can pass the blame to. Everyone has good and bad qualities, and we're suppose to use dating in order to find out what those qualities are, and basically if that person is worth dealing with for the rest of your life. I feel that there is no point of claiming a relationship if you truly do not want one, and there's nothing wrong with not wanting a relationship and/or title.

Ladies just because a guy will listen to your problems, doesn't mean he loves you. Fellas just because a girl sleeps with you doesn't mean she's in love with you. This is real life and not a movie, and the odds are that if you're love life resembles a movie than you'll be having a lot of problems shortly. Sometimes I have to remind myself this, so don't feel bad if you often confuse the two. If you have a good significant other you should embrace that, but also realize that they're not perfect, yes they're human so they will mess up.

Lust

  • Strong Sexual Attraction 
  • Only physical attraction
  • Only material attraction (money, cars, clothes, career etc...)
  • Good Sex
  • Conditional Love (I love you if, but, unless etc...)
  • Selfishness
  • Infatuation
  • Late night calls
  • Flirtatious Texts, (clear intent)

Love 

  • Deep Romantic Attachment
  • Unconditional Care for someone else
  • Would NEVER harm or intentionally hurt 
  • Protects constantly
  • Making love
  • Wants the best for the person
  • Moods may change but feelings don't

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